How to Use a Cock Ring: Tips and Considerations
A cock ring is a device worn around the base of the penis during sex. This gadget goes by several other names, such as penis ring, penile constriction ring, or C-ring.
But what do cock rings do? Proponents of cock rings say they create a harder erection or make your penis larger during sexual activity. And while there isn’t much scientific research on the supposed benefits of cock rings, many people swear by them for improving sexual performance and pleasure.
In this article, we’ll cover:
What cock rings are used for
How cock rings work
How to use a cock ring during sex
Potential benefits of penis rings
Safety and hygiene considerations
Let’s get started on how to use a cock ring and everything else you need to know about penis rings.
What Is a Cock Ring?
“Cock ring” is a popular colloquial term for what the medical community calls a penis ring. It’s a ring-shaped device worn around the base of your penis before and during sex. Other names for penis rings include penile constriction bands and tension rings. But at the end of the day, these devices are sex toys for men.
They can be simple or come with many bells and whistles. Soft silicone (ideal for beginners) designed to fit around the base of your penis may be stretchy, while firmer silicone or metal rings will have less “give.”
Most penis rings are designed to be used on their own, while others are part of a “system” — intended for use with a vacuum erection device (referred to as a penis pump) or similar enhancement.
A penis ring wearer might choose one of the following:
Silicone penis rings are often considered the baseline model, and while they may lack bells and whistles, they’re user-friendly options that are easy to put on and take off.
Vibrating penis rings take the functionality of a normal penis ring and add some buzz. Vibrating cock rings may have a built-in motor or incorporate a bullet vibrator for your partner’s pleasure. As male sex toy options go, the vibrating ring is the one everyone can enjoy most. G-spot and clitoris attachments make for partnered fun. Look for rechargeable devices with features like remote control or app-controlled vibration modes for some extra entertainment.
Adjustable penis rings feature bands or other mechanisms that allow them to be adjusted to better fit your penis for comfort. Stretchy penis rings and ball ring devices come in different sizes, but you want to make sure your super stretchy ring can come off easily.
Penis ring systems don’t just stop at a circle — some spice things up a bit with premium add-ons and attachments.
The point here is that — just like actual penises — cock rings come in all shapes and sizes.
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How Do Cock Rings Work?
Cock rings and other constrictive erectile devices address erectile dysfunction by restricting blood flow. Penis rings keep your erection harder and by restricting the blood flow out of your penis (which would lead to your erection turning flaccid). Trapping blood in your penis keeps your erection stronger, for longer.
Healthy erections are all about good blood flow. When you’re sexually aroused, blood flows into the erectile tissues inside your penis, causing them to expand and become firmer. This gives you an erection hard enough to have sex.
Thanks to their snug fit at the base of the penis, cock rings are designed to ensure that the blood that flows into your penis stays there.
Many men use cock rings when it becomes hard to get or maintain an erection during sex. Some people even claim that cock rings prolong sexual activity, giving you more powerful orgasms and — if worn at the right angle — providing direct clitoral stimulation for a female partner.
Can You Use a Cock Ring During Masturbation?
Cock rings can be used alone during masturbation or with a partner during other types of sexual activity. Some guys use them if they find they have trouble maintaining an erection.
Potential Benefits of Cock Rings
As with most other types of sex toys, most of the purported benefits of cock rings are based on “hands-on“ anecdotal experiences since there’s been a limited amount of formal research.
With that said, possible benefits of cock rings include:
Improved erectile dysfunction (ED). Some men who use penis rings claim they notice stronger erections and have an easier time remaining hard during sexual activity. Although there’s little research on them specifically, constriction rings are sometimes used with penis pumps as a treatment for ED.
Elevated sexual sensation. Many people claim cock rings increase sexual pleasure. Some feature vibration, nubs, ribs, and other features designed to enhance pleasure for one or both partners.
Increased confidence. Some men may have a confidence boost that might help reduce sexual performance anxiety if they notice they have better erections while using a cock ring.
Though “improved sexual stamina“ is a commonly touted cock ring benefit, there’s little to no proof to back this up. The same is true of a penis ring’s alleged ability to delay orgasm or prevent premature ejaculation (PE).
Formal research examining the ability of cock rings to prevent PE is largely limited to one study of 42 men published in 2007. In this study, researchers found that constriction rings didn’t have a noticeable effect on the average time to ejaculation during vaginal sex in men with premature ejaculation, labeling penis rings as “not an effective treatment for PE.”
Potential Risks of Using a Cock Ring
Cock rings are generally safe, but the greatest risk comes from using a penis ring that’s too tight. According to the International Society for Sexual Medicine, because penis rings restrict blood flow, they can permanently damage an erect penis if worn too tightly for too long.
Several case studies have reported lost blood flow in men wearing cock rings. Most cases were successfully treated, though.
For instance, in a 2022 study, researchers reported a case of a 61-year-old male who came to the emergency ward with a painfully swollen penis and urine retention (when you can’t pee) due to a stuck metal cock ring.
Several attempts were made to remove the ring, but eventually, it had to be removed with a special iron cutter. The man recovered without any complications.
In a 2019 study, researchers reported three cases of cock rings that got stuck. Each was successfully treated with:
Olive oil applied to slide off the ring (like when you need to get a ring off your finger)
Cutting the ring with a diamond-tip Midas drill
Cutting with another special tool
Prolonged loss of blood flow to the penis or any body part can lead to necrosis (cell death caused by poor blood supply). Necrosis could lead to gangrene and potentially require amputation.
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How to Use a Penis Ring Safely
Because of the potential risks, it’s important to be careful when using a cock ring. Ways to prevent injuring your penis include:
Choosing a ring properly fitted for your penis
Making sure the ring is easy to remove
Avoiding extended use and giving your penis time to rest
Using a lubricant when removing the ring
Cleaning the ring after each use
As with any sex toy or gadget, knowing how to use a cock ring safely is crucial — it’s part of practicing safe sex.
Choose a Penis Ring That Fits You
Penis rings are available in a range of sizes. Like condoms, you’ll want to choose one that properly fits your penis. An overly tight ring could make your penis feel numb during sex (if that happens, take the ring off right away), while a loose ring may not be fully effective.
Beginners might want a simple elastic ring that fits around the base of the penis. Others may want something with other features, such as also wrapping below the scrotum or a ring that applies vibration to the perineum.
Make Sure You Can Get It On and Off in a Hurry
Putting on a cock ring is a simple process, but it’s vital to do it correctly to prevent discomfort during sex. Here’s what to do:
Apply a small amount of lubricant to the inside of the ring.
Place the ring on your semi-erect or flaccid penis, carefully sliding it to the base.
Make sure the ring fits comfortably before penetrating your partner.
The ring shouldn’t apply any unnecessary pressure to the shaft of your penis.
If you feel any discomfort, check that the ring is still in the correct position.
When you’re finished, carefully remove the penis ring, applying a little more lube if needed.
Limit Use to 30 Minutes at a Time
Cock rings can be dangerous when used for too long because the lack of blood flow can potentially lead to penile damage.
A good rule of thumb is a maximum of 30 minutes. (That doesn’t mean you need to remove it for the rest of the night, but it gives your penis time for some rest.) If you’re a beginner, consider wearing it for just five minutes at a time to allow yourself to adjust to the sensation.
Take your ring off as soon as you can after finishing sex, and make sure you don’t fall asleep while it’s still on your penis.
If you experience any discomfort, tightness, or physical pain during sex or notice your penis swells after wearing a penis ring for several minutes, take it off right away. If you can’t remove your ring due to excessive tightness, seek emergency medical assistance.
Start With a Silicone Cock Ring
If it’s your first time, a silicone ring might be best. Silicone cock rings are generally easier to fit onto your penis. Since they’re stretchy, they come off without much effort and are less likely to become stuck during or after sex compared to metal rings.
Silicone penis rings can also usually be cut in emergencies easier than metal rings — but there’s still a chance they require special power tools and a trip to the hospital.
If you’re allergic to silicone, look for an alternative that’s made with a soft, stretchy material.
Use Lubrication
You’ll want to use lube when wearing a cock ring, especially if you’re new to this type of sex toy. Lubrication makes fitting a ring easier, reduces the risk of friction burn, and allows you to slide it off during sex if it becomes uncomfortable or overly tight.
Apply a small amount of lube, like a water-based lube, to the inside surface of the ring before putting it on your penis.
A water-based lubricant is ideal, as oil-based lubes may damage condoms and increase their risk of breaking.
Wash Your Cock Ring After Use
As with other sex toys, make sure to wash your cock ring thoroughly after each use to prevent the spread of bacteria and STIs (sexually transmitted infections).
If your ring is silicone, you can clean it by placing it in boiling water for five to 10 minutes or with antibacterial soap and warm water.
Most silicone cock rings are dishwasher-friendly, but avoid boiling vibrating cock rings since you may damage the electric component. For these rings, it’s best to follow the manufacturer’s instructions.
If your ring is stainless steel, you can do all of the above to clean it. Or soak the ring for 10 minutes in a 10:1 water-to-bleach solution.
For rings and sex toys made from other materials, check the manufacturer’s instructions for how to properly clean them.
It’s a good idea to throw out your ring if you notice it’s visibly damaged, torn, or looking less-than-pristine.
Alternatives to Cock Rings
If you’re using a cock ring to treat erectile dysfunction or maintain a harder erection during sex, know there are alternatives to check out, too.
ED Medications
There are several FDA-approved medications on the market to help treat erectile dysfunction. These meds fall into a group of prescription drugs called PDE5 inhibitors (short for phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors).
They work by relaxing blood vessels and increasing blood flow to the penis (and throughout the rest of the body). Most ED meds begin working in under an hour, making them ideal to use as needed before sex.
Oral ED medications approved in the United States include:
Sildenafil (Viagra®)
Avanafil (Stendra®)
Vardenafil (Levitra®, Staxyn®)
Our guide to the most common ED treatments and drugs goes into more detail about how these medications work, their potential benefits, side effects, and more.
Other Sex Toys
Many types of sex toys may enhance your sexual experience. Beyond cock rings, some options include:
Butt plugs
Dildos
Male masturbators
Realistic vaginas
See our guide to the best male sex toys for more suggestions.
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How to Use a Cock Ring: The Final Word
Here’s the TL;DR on how to use a cock ring:
Cock rings work by slowing down blood flow out of the erect penis, which may help you maintain an erection longer.
Can they help you have better sex? Cock rings might be helpful for men with impaired penile blood flow, but erectile dysfunction medications are usually the first-line treatment for ED.
Whether you use a cock ring or not is an individual choice. Some men find that these devices help them mix up their sex life, whereas other guys might not experience any benefit.
Even though they’re sex toys, remember that cock rings can do some real damage if misused. Talk to your healthcare provider before using a penis ring as a treatment for erectile dysfunction.
It’s especially important to get medical advice from a healthcare provider before using a cock ring if you have an underlying condition that affects blood flow throughout your body, such as heart disease, hypertension (high blood pressure), diabetes, or an injury to the nerves around your penis.
You can also learn more about the causes of ED, common symptoms, and treatment options in our full guide to erectile dysfunction. Or do our online sexual health assessment to start exploring treatments.
This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. The information contained herein is not a substitute for and should never be relied upon for professional medical advice. Always talk to your doctor about the risks and benefits of any treatment or medication.